Sal, that's a good question. I'm likely to wear the topper during the event because the rooms are often freezing cold. I may take it off for dancing, but often there is a sit down meal and a speaker, or award ceremony, etc.
Joy, I tried to find the blush bomber because I liked that idea, but couldn't find it.
Karen13, I really love that velvet topper, I am tempted to get something like this because it would be an interesting and versatile piece for my wardrobe, not only for the dress.
I just remembered that I have an eggplant/dark purple crop leather jacket made by Veda. It has silver hardware so it would work with the pewter shoes. Does the color look okay? I can try to find time to take a picture of the entire outfit to see how it works, but the colors in the finds on my screen look accurate.