i've gone back to lurking until now, and would greatly appreciate your help

so, i've finally decided to take the spec shopping plunge, and am already overwhelmed! j/k

(sorry, i'm having trouble adding some photos of myself for reference, so please forgive me)/

in the meantime, i find myself loving cat eye specs both for their retro look and ability to flatter long oval face shapes (i think?):

1) http://www.lenscrafters.com/ey.....6g/6588446

2) http://www.lenscrafters.com/ey.....ns/6569057

a few questions:
--since i have bad eyes and my lenses are very thick, what kinds of frames will accommodate that well?

--i live in the bay area (san jose); where are some good, relatively local eyeglass frames stores to check out? i am willing to spend more than my last pair (from costco) if that helps broaden the quality and/or design options.

thanks so much!!!