Here is a doppleganger for my winter coat. Mine is double breasted with a large portrait collar that I can button to my neck, but this is about right:

My boots are black knee-high suede; my hair is dark brown.

I desperately need gloves, hat, and a scarf. Right now they are all black and it depresses me. The hat needs to keep my ears warm. I canNOT find anything to complete this ensemble that looks chic. I've toyed with fur, cashmere, fedoras (I don't like fedoras) and come up with nothing. Under no circumstances will I wear a hat with ears. I don't even like pom-poms.

What do you fashionistas recommend? Thanks.