Just to chime back in slightly less rushed--I like the black dress because the red one seems a little toooo ruffley, even though it is very pretty. The black one looks great on her, and I like all her ideas about styling it in other ways. Also the high waist adds a girlish touch that keeps it age-appropriate, and I like the idea of wearing shorts underneath. (Just learned about "sliders" right here.) In any case you have a beautiful daughter, and she is also lucky to have such a supportive and helpful mom.