These are the ones I started out with and decided the black and white was too theatrical for me...

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/31.....sultback=0 (in black)

Here are my considerations:

The same shoes in solid black patent:
http://www.infinityshoes.com/M.....c-754.html

Good: Black without being boring, boyish, broguing, and I have already tried them so I know how they fit
Bad: I have black patent oxfords. That's an awfully specific style to replicate.

http://www.infinityshoes.com/M.....-1476.html
Good: They are a more subdued version of the ones I got
Cons: They have a leather lining but synthetic upper--which is just odd. I don't know if they'll be stretchy enough to accommodate my numerous foot deformities. The gray is also light and may still be too much contrast.

http://www.urbanoutfitters.com.....;color=004
Good: broguing is present, cute style
Bad: Well, this isn't "bad" so much as different: They're definitely more girly than what I expected.

http://shop.nordstrom.com/S/31.....sultback=0
Good: They have Angie's comfort approval, broguing
Bad: Not a fan of the lacelessness...although Zappos shows them with laces so I'm confused. Again, they're girly.

http://www.zappos.com/fitzwell.....-white-kid
Good: Angie-approved, comes in wide, broguing
Bad: Again, already have black patent.

...help?