I know this is a bit old but I have some more thoughts
I appreciate gryffin’s specific fit notes, and tend to agree the reason mine feels slightly off at times is probably the shoulder fit. I did initially also assume that I’d be wearing it only with slim pants, but as I posted a while ago Carol S inspired me to try mine with wider, longer jeans (not dramatically wide but definitely not skinny or even straight, and no ankle showing), and I enjoy the effect very much.
Fashion trend images tend to come at us first from a very specific angle - as worn on tall, slim, young women. And that can imprint us with specific ideas about what works - ideas that aren’t necessarily true. The skill (and fun!) is in figuring out how to make those looks that appeal work for the individual. I love that we have access to a much larger range of images these days, via social media and brands diversifying their models. I’m not a slim person in general, yet I’ve always loved oversized clothes. It started when I was a preteen with a rapidly changing body that I didn’t want to show to the world, and some 80s fashions that weren’t about being sexy or body con or whatever you want to call it. I’m not ashamed of my middle aged body, so it’s no longer a matter of ‘hiding’, but I also don’t feel the need to slim myself down visually. Simply rolling up the sleeves of my blazer reduces the visual overwhelm factor and makes me quite happy.