sending hugs and wishes for strength your way, Cathy. All good advice above, and don't forget to take care of Cathy in all this. Reading through what the above ylf women have done is amazing. Please ask whenever you need some encouragement..Lynne xxx

(((Hugs))) and prayers to you, Cathy. Don't forget the power of counting your blessings to help you keep perspective.

I am wishing you strength and health, Cathy. Like everything, This Too Shall Pass.

Cathy, so sorry you are going through this. I am sending big hugs your way.

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I am so sorry that you are going through this. I pray that you and your kids will be provided for and that you recover completely and quickly from your knee surgery.

cciele, I'll only repeat the words a friend of mine, who was going through a similar thing about a year ago, had said "This is just a bad half-time between two good halves of my life". Much like what Sveta was saying, my friend is a champion positive thinker and things are taking a turn for the better for them. It took time, it was hard, but she persevered. With no family support around her and a small circle of friends, she's standing stronger than ever, showing her two beautiful girls (and me and all our other friends) that even from a bad circumstances one can make a good, happy life.

Oh, bless your heart! I have been where you are and it's very scary, I know! But you will come out the other side and things will get better -- MUCH better! Sending big hugs to you and your girls!

Cathy, sending you hugs and support at this difficult time. Good luck to you and your girls and know that this community is behind you 100% of the way. xo

Oh Cathy I just want to send you some more absolutely HUGE hugs.

I have almost 5yr old and almost 7yr old girls, and separated from their dad at the end of 2008 (now divorced). So I feel like you are at the stage I was back then (except it was Em who was recovering from surgery and not me)...

All I can really say is that you have been given great advice here, and to reassure you that this time will pass, and life will definitely improve. I think its pretty clear too when you read that each of us here who have been through it assure you life gets better - its a very tough time at the moment, but the rewards will be worth it.

As hard as it can be, take any help you can get from friends and family and do remember to look after yourself as well as you can.

I'll definitely be thinking of you and please let us know if there is anything we can do.

Cathy, I am so sorry that you are going through a rough period. I hope that things will start looking brighter soon. Big hugs to you from afar.

So sorry everything is happening to you at one time, Cathy. That is so hard!

There are so many challenges with divorce. The wisdom Taylor shared is crucial.

Sending good vibes your way!

I think your good vibes are working, since some of my fellow music instructors have given up their classes for me to teach, because of my $ situation. There are so many generous people in the world--you guys included. You are the greatest -- thanks for your support and words of wisdom!

Bless your heart, Cathy. There are good people in the world and I am glad that you feel surrounded by them.