I agree with others in that you are evolving your fitness routine. It has to work for you and not endanger. Congrats on all the hard work you have put in to this. Keep going! You can do it!

Sometimes with my DH, if he sees me upset, he will get mad. And that feels like he is not supporting me. If I take care of myself and show him I'm ok and working to help myself, he will be proud of my changes.

No matter what, we are supporting you!!!!

Kudos to you for taking control of the situation. Sorry about DH. Let us be your cheering squad. Go, IK!

My DH was somewhat resistant to making som3 dietary changes (I insisted he start paying attention to saturated fat in food. Now he really supportive of it and takes pride in finding a new product that is has less fat or no saturated fat to substitute for other products. He has always been supportive of my exercising on the tread mill and weight training. If your hubby sees how you can make this work for yourself in a reasonable and sustainable way he will surely be proud of you! He is probably just a little skeptical right now. He will come around and start praising you when he sees your determination! GO IK!!!!

So sorry that you are having to deal with this when you are obviously committed and trying so hard. I know it probably doesn't help to say this but it's DH's problem. Don't be discourage, I'm so impressed with your accomplishments so far and your committment to keep going in spite of some of the hurdles thrown in your path. Keep up the good work and talk to us, DH will come around.

I am relieved you are no longer doing this program - it sounded a little scary to me and I know there will be better opportunities for you. So proud of you for doing the smart thing AND getting your money back.

As for DH, a big GRRRRR to him. Is he is prime condition himself? Is he highly competitive and thinking that negative feedback will somehow motivate you? Or just talking out of body parts that shouldn't be talking? I'm sure you're not going to take that kind of comment lightly, and I wouldn't either.

I know my DH doesn't always like that our eating habits are different, but he knows better than to say anything since he knows I'm making better choices than him. I never nag him about it or make negative comments to him, though... why demoralize someone that way, especially someone you love?

You ladies are a delight. Thanks so much for the support!

/highfive to already making progress, and /doublehighfive to dropping the crazy program and doing things more healthyly! Boo to hubby, but I'm sure he'll come around eventually.

IK, you have the inner drive and you want this for you! This is the hardest part for anyone to grasp! You got this!!!