Thanks, all. I'll report on these items when they arrive. And Angie, that dress is already on my radar! I'm hoping to see it in person if I can.
Liesbeth -- that's good advice. In fact I didn't shop at all (apart from gear) from January-April or May. But neither did I do the reflection I'd planned to do then. Time to do it.
Angie's dead right -- I shop for warm weather as soon as she's stopped! So funny. Traditionally, that worked for me because I started buying when items went on sale and I could actually wear them in my Ontario climate. But in my new climate I think I ought to get with the shopping sooner, if I'm going to do it. Because May here can be a very warm month.
Re churn: I am so, so, so ambivalent! I'm sure I'm not alone about this. It is hard to reconcile a love of fashion and clothes with a concern for planetary resources. In the end I think we have to take it one step at at time and consider our consumption patterns altogether, along with other factors. And each person's answers will be unique to her particular situation. But fundamentally -- the more we buy, the more we create waste.
And I do buy quite a lot of clothes. By some people's standards, my level of wardrobe churn is trivial. (I think of the woman in my city who brings her clothing to consignment after a single wear.) By other people's standards, my level of churn is significant. I retired at least 33 pieces in 2018; I've retired 16 so far in 2019. Typically, I retire about a third of my items each year. At the same time, I take good care of my clothes and I still own and wear items I bought in my first year of YLF.
Meanwhile, on an emotional level... On the one hand, I shopped vintage and second hand through most of my 20s; it was fun and creative but my wardrobe never fully worked for me. Then, throughout my 30s and 40s, I bought almost no clothes. This isn't an exaggeration. I had a wardrobe that would be considered tiny by the tightest minimalist. A couple of pairs of jeans, four or five tops per season, a few skirts from Old Navy or Gap. Two pairs of shoes per season.
For decades, then, my love of fashion languished. I really didn't have the money for much clothing, and made do made do made do. I sort of missed the whole "fast fashion" boom and the mentality that fuelled it. So when I joined YLF I couldn't believe the size of some people's wardrobes! I say that without judgement. I wasn't judging. I was just astonished because my own frame of reference was so different.
The fact is, though, I was a person who loved clothes and fashion and I hadn't had a genuinely working wardrobe since childhood! I also had an increasingly complicated life with multiple roles. Getting dressed for anything was difficult.
It was only in my 50s that I had the financial means to make fashion purchases again. And it is a great source of fun and pleasure, and a part of me thinks, why not indulge myself a little?
But then I consider the cost to the planet. As a matter of fact, I wear quite a few of my clothes hard enough to wear them out (and that is after repairs and careful upkeep). And those I get rid of quickly before they are worn out go to good homes -- often my step-daughter. But even so...
Angie, I think you're right that my 1/3 rotation is dead right for my feelings about my style. I like to inject a bit of new and a bit of trend every year and that keeps things fresh and makes me happy.
But I guess the question is how important my feelings are in the great scheme of things. If following my feelings hurts no one and helps me, then I say go for it! But if following my feelings creates a disproportionate harm to others, then I do feel some guilt about it. The whole situation is so complicated!
If anybody has the perfect answer, let me know, okay?