Deborah, I do the same thing!!!
No wonder Angie calls her bags her "wardrobe pets."
I find I am similar -- it needs to look like quality (even if the price point is low). But also, it has to feel like it against the skin. Or I probably won't wear it. And even a "nice" fabric (i.e. silk) in a poor quality is not a good purchase. Better would be a less expensive but higher quality cotton.
Joy, that is a good point -- items that require ironing. In the past, I was more like Debs -- it was footwear and jackets (and coats) where I could not compromise. Now I have an additional area!
Beth Ann, Jody -- I hear you on the frustrations of mid range. It is pretty much what I can afford, and it can be absolutely wonderful. But it can also be so much less than wonderful. I guess that's why I have come to depend on Angie's picks so intently.
Lyn, I can't abide pleather. I want to like it, for ethical reasons, but I just can't. I can do a bit of pleather trim on a coat or jacket where I won't be touching it much -- but for a whole jacket, it has be leather or fabric.
lyn, LOL - I feel like that too about the rash sometimes. And it literally does happen to my daughter, who has super sensitive dry skin!!
Mo, Jody -- this is the thing. We really can't know in advance how well stuff will wear. It's not just the durability, though -- it's also how much pleasure it gives you in the wearing. And that is equally difficult to calculate, it seems!