On a journey. - YouLookFab Forum

Hi!

My name is Sunny and I'm new to the forum but have been reading Angie's blog for a couple years. I look tonit for inspiration and outfit ideas as well as helpful hints and thought provoking ideas. I really appreciate her work.

I'm basically now a stay at home mom but had previously been in a very business professional setting. I have been working to figure out who I am now - what I will do next- and really feel that clothes for me are an expression of my inner self. Since I worked in a professional setting my wardrobe was mainly suits and heels and I clumsily transitioned through two kids and 70 pounds of weight to where I am now.

I went through yoga pants to good skinny jeans and boots with sweaters and am now mainly shopping my closet to pull out the funky things I bought over the years but didn't wear because my professional life didn't allow for a funky, boho, western, rockish style with a touch of chic thrown in. I am figuring out how to integrate them with jeans, cool shoes and some classic pieces.

It is all such a journey inside and out

I love the look of cowboy boots with good boot cut jeans and a crisp oversized oxford shirt with a cute jacket- love looking at the sundance catalog- love j crew old navy and gap for tall cut basics, love looking at free people elements but haven't integrated any yet, love nordstroms - the rack is a haunt of mine when I get out alone-

I also adore baggy rolled jeans with a lovely soft blouse or plaid and crazy studded booties. I'm obsessed with sci-fi silver and I may try a dyi before I commit to a new purchase.

I also love a full midi skirt with lady pointed flats (for me because of chasing toddlers) and cute striped tops cardis and blouses.

I'm a lover of converse sneakers with everything.

Lastly I do hit up forever 21 and asos sometimes for a trend at a cheap price to test drive my use before committing to a large budget outlay.

I drool at Isabel marant, calypso st Barth. Intermix, golden goose shoes, and anine bing clothes.

I look forward to more inspiration and learning of all of your journeys through fashion.

12 years ago

gryffin

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Sunnytime - sounds like you have an awesome aesthetic. Transitions are always so challenging. After my son was born, I felt that nothing looked right any more and it took me several hormonally challenged years to find myself again. You really sound like you know what direction you want to go in and you just need to give yourself the time to find your way. Can't wait to see where this journey takes you!! Best of luck!!

viva

"Clothes are an expression of my inner self."
That really resonated with me. I am much farther along in life than you (sounds so much better than older!!!) with two girls in college, and I run my own business, and for a long time I sort of resented my husband, who works hard as a teacher but always found time to pick up something new: motorcycles, guitar, whatever... Since joining YLF, I have realized and embraced that one of my passions is my style -- and looking at and appreciating color, design, and thoughtfulness in clothing and outfits. I don't so much enjoy just reading blogs, but YLF is a community where interaction is a big part, and I have been so loving exploring this passion of mine. I completely agree with you that clothes are an expression of my inner self, which is why some things really work and other things -- even if they fit well -- just don't. I'm excited you are here and really look forward to seeing your style in action. It sounds quite different from mine which means it will be really fun to watch and learn from.

Laura (rhubarbgirl)

(website)

Hiya and welcome. I went on a similar journey - no kids yet but went from a regular office job to working at home for myself, and it has been quite an adjustment. You sound like you have a real sense of what you like and what works for you, which is great.

Suz

Welcome! I will look forward to getting to know more about your style. It sounds as if you have a really clear sense of your loves and you're ready for adventure! There are quite a few of us who either work from home or are moms with kids at home - so you will be in good company.