some changes-care less now about what others are wearing, and dressing just for me. No, I do not want to stand out in a crown, but do want to look a bit different -in subtle ways. I am feeling I want to be neat, appropriate, comfortable, somewhat classie, BUT have on at least one item that is different that the norm -or what others in my peer group are wearing. some ideas for now are socks with sneakers or booties when I have rolled up jeans or pants, broaches on lapels or somewhere, part tucks that are not sloppy looking, scarf tied in different way, different combinations that I normally do not wear, etc.