Good decision, Jenni. They just were not "you" enough and no reason to buy if they are not needed and not what you're truly wishing for. Sometimes when this has happened to me, another colour of neutral has somehow taken the place of the most beloved or sought-after colour and it has led to a style evolution of sorts. And then eventually I have found the HEWI and was glad I waited. Though sometimes it can take a while! Anyway, you will feel better at not spending on something that doesn't please you 100%, despite the returns issues.
With returns here...yes, sometimes there are long flights (also for online deliveries, for that matter.) This is why I like to make in-person returns when I can (even if I ordered online). But increasingly this has become difficult because all the B&M stores are closing. But returns to some of the places I shop at most stay within the province, which is not as bad.