the Piperlime dress works! It is shorter and better fitting and the shoulders are not too tight!
The DKNY dress is too long and loose and my DH's comment that it looked like a hippie dress sealed it for me. Nothing wrong with boho but I was not going for that look. Also it is cut on the bias and that is a tough cut to wear. Oh well, live and learn.
Thanks again to Gryffin for spotting the Sam & Lavi dress back in stock!