Jane, Suz, rachylou, Toban, kkards, Angie, thanks for the support.
Suntiger, thanks for the scarf suggestion.
Bijou, that’s true. I rarely regret not buying something, but some of the items I was most on the fence about become workhorses, so I have trouble differentiating.
Jules, learning to admire the pattern and leave an item would be useful for me. You are correct that it is a relief to have made that decision. Shush, don’t tell anyone but I have a few more items with an as yet undecided future.