Beth, the Fryes have been on my radar as some to try next if these don't work out. How is the comfort of the Fryes? And how tall are they? I'm wondering if I should try them before committing to these, even though they're more expensive.
I did wear the 8.5 black laceup boots for a couple of hours around the house yesterday while I worked and did some household chores. They are slightly taller than the 8s but you're right, they soften and slouch at the ankles slightly with wear, so they do kind of move down a bit. The backs come up behind my knees when I sit, but the back has a vent cut into it, so the two sides fold back and it's not uncomfortable. I don't mind how it looks when I stand up either, since something roomy near my knees actually helps visually make my legs look a little skinnier, which I can always use!
The comfort was better yesterday -- I think I just needed to give my feet a break after wearing a new pair of shoes with no socks which rubbed a bit too much the day before (I forgot to put on Body Glide).
I'm leaning towards keeping, but wondering if it would be smart to try the Fryes too, just to be safe. Bed-Stu makes a cool pair but the black version is too distressed for what I want.