Well On top of that we had to deal with mental health issues. I'm sorry we have been gone so long. So much going on. Yesterday May 10th My sister finally convinced her to go to the hospital to seek help for her manic depression and while there get the daily Dialysis that is so needed. My birthday was a pretty dismal one on Wednesday May 9th but my sister My shero was able to give us all some much needed time to put things into place that would help our aunt. We still have a ways to go but we can breath a little easier. Thank you all so very much for giving me room to vent.

I am so sorry to hear what you are going through, Ladonna. You are in my thoughts, I wish you strength.

That sounds extra tough, Ledonna -- mental health issues add yet another layer of difficulty. I have a friend whose sister is in a similar way and it is awfully hard.

Ledonna, Bless you. So sorry you have to experience this. Hugs, best wishes and prayers from me!

We find our strength from venting anf from faith and good works. Thank you all I really appreciate you all. I got a chamce to breath this weekend and we are finding our way.

So sorry- you have a lot going on and are giving a lot to your loved ones- you are a blessing to many.
The support of a hospice agency is the right direction. They can help at home but it’s also good to pick an agency, if you have multiple options, that has a comfortable inpatient facility also in case that is needed as a backup plan ( although all hospice agencies have to have some sort of arrangement). There are insurance- driven criteria for when admission to inpatient hospice is appropriate but an agency nurse or SW can give you all the information and options.
Wishing you peace and enough breathing space.

I'm so glad you have your sister to help bear the responsibility --- sounds like you're working like a "tag team," giving one another a little break from a difficult task.

Blessings on your aunt, LeDonna! Don't hesitate to reach out to a hospital social worker or a caregiver support group. Sometimes they have connections that can lighten your load.

I'm a new member here, but my sympathies and prayers go out to you regardless. I do hope that you and your sister are coping well with things. Reaching the end of life can be a terrifying thing, especially for your aunt and that leads to erratic behavior and sudden decisions. As tough and draining of a journey it is on you guys, please also remember that that she's struggling in her own way and is probably terrified of facing what's to come. I suggest just being there for her and allowing her to do whatever she pleases, but definitely reach out to people if you or your sis need any emotional support on this.

Just came upon your post, Ledonna, and want to send you love, strength and peace through what sounds like such a harrowing experience for you and yours. Big hugs to you.