My dear Fabbers, I need your help.


I have reached an impasse with clothing. My usual haunts such as Target and Old Navy have left me wanting. The thing is, I'm curvy and tall and tend towards the upper size range. So I just don't know where to start looking. And shopping with a toddler st places like Nordstroms feels daunting to me. I don’t even know what to try or look for beyond general leg cut. So I really could use your recommendations, encouragement, and maybe some hand holding. 

Angie recommended the Good American jeans company for curvy skinny cut jeans. I am still looking for the right pair to purchase on eBay. But they do look to fit the bill!! So I am hoping to get a pair soon. Mostly too, I was getting through summer in dresses. With cold weather approaching I need something warmer than lightweight rayon dresses. 

I am loving and feeling more at home in romantic, womanly styles, a la Christina Hendricks and Nigella Lawson. Here is what I need:

I am 5-foot, 10-inches tall. Moderately full bottom, full thighs and hips, and small waist. I have wider shoulders, moderate 38C bust. Usually wear a size US 14 or 16 in bottoms (curvy cuts in size 14 for sure) and size 12-14, L or XL on top. 

I'm looking for...
  • Pants and jeans, especially high waister. I love skinny leg, but also am into full, wide leg and bootcut again lately. The lower waists aren't working for me due to wearing more fitted, shorter sweaters. 
  • Couple tops or blouses 
  • A good skirt or two in a circle or pencil shape
  • I would prefer it be fairly mommy friendly, i.e., no special care silk or $500 designer labels. 
I know some of you sew. I really desire to sew myself and am planning to try a few things this winter. (I have knit for many years and have sewn a little before, so I am up for the challenge.) But as it is, I am down to very little clothing. Not just clothing that fits, but actual clothing. My general hourglass shape has remained. But my body has changed remarkable since having my son, doing physical therapy, and getting into shape again. Almost nothing fits. Blouses that fit okay last year suddenly look frumpy and huge on me this year. I also finally got rid of clothes that were 5-6 years old and worn to death or didn't fit well anymore. 

I also need shoes but will post separately later for that.

Biggest xo and thanks for your help!