Can you have someone else take a pic of you? It may very well indeed be your mirror - OR the mirrors at Nordstrom's!! I have noticed they tilt their mirrors, which makes everyone look taller and slimmer. It makes me not want to buy anything in the store, only online. I trust my mirrors at home a lot more.
But otherwise, to my eye, based on these photos, I think both look fine. The moto jacket may be just a *tad* small, but it's hard to tell in this picture. I might be tempted to try the next size up just to compare, but less for the length (where it's hitting on your high hip looks about right to me). It just looks a tad tight to me in the shoulders and arms, and perhaps the sleeve length is a bit short? Ultimately it depends on how you prefer the fit.
That said, can you try the moto open over a long, untucked or semi-tucked blouse? Similar to how the model is wearing it? That extra bit of white top poking out makes a difference, I think, when you are going with a shorter topper. I also bought this blouse from NAS (in the blush color) and really like how it looks under the moto, worn messily semi-tucked or completely untucked and flowing loosely -- structure over unstructured:
http://shop.nordstrom.com/s/be.....?origin=ca