Thank you so much for your opinions.
Ornella, this is the same jacket but it is open in 4 and zipped up in 3.
I am OK with the sleeve length as I tend to scrunch them anyway and I also can unzip the sleeve and turn up the cuff. It is the back length I am not sure about.
Mona, I have seen your post and I think your jacket fits differently than mine does. I wonder if my size L fits closer to yours...
Angie, thank you for chiming in. On you sleeves are not as short as on me or on the model I think they are at last an inch above my wrist bone. This is bigger size - XL. L fits the same in the shoulders but less boxy through the body. with XL sleeves are not tight; with L they are a bit tight from elbow down.
So you think it is not too short for me?
gryffin, it works well with skirts and dresses, both fitted and flared.
\now about a side view. I don't see it as much in the mirror but in the picture when it is open it kind of "sticks out" too much, no? It maybe because it is not steamed out and it did not "mold" yet. Also there was a bit of wind and i think it blew it a bit open in the pictures... does it feel like I am trying to convince myself that the fit is not too bad?
Suz, you are wise as always. I need to try and style it better before making a decision, right?
I think the whole length thing is a sensitive issue for me. As petite gals are afraid that a bit longer sleeves look like they borrowed the jacket from "mom's" closet, for a tall gal like me there is also that little voice in my head asking if I look it it like I outgrew it... that's why I ask for the wisdom of YLF and our fearless leader!
I will try to play dress up tomorrow and take more pictures . I will also take pictures of another size - just too see if this bigger size is too boxy on me.