My Shopping Journey

Lisa

Hello.

Today's blog post really resonated with me because I know all too well about the struggles a person can face with shopping.

Just like Angie mentioned in today's post, Becoming a Better Shopper, is not overnight success.

I know for me it wasn't.

It was a long journey.

I made a lot of mistakes along the way.

I wanted to say a big THANK YOU to Angie for your kind words on today's blog post--"You have it all figured out too! So much so, that you wrote it all down. Your cohesive style is a shining example of it. Well done."

With the journey I've had, to read a comment like that, to know that I've really nailed it and it's recognizable to someone else, just wow.

I am honored and humbled. Angie you have no idea what your kind words and praise mean to me. You're awesome!

2 months ago

Shopping

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Jenni NZ

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I thought that was your book Lisa! I vaguely remembered that you had written one from earlier reading of Angie’s blog posts- which in 2016/17 I read every single one of before joining up! That’s a lot of reading!
But when I checked Amazon I couldn’t tell because the picture of the author didn’t look at all like you Long blonde hair? And you don’t use your surname on here.
But I’m sure Angie’s praise is well deserved.
I think perhaps your wardrobe is now bigger again than after writing the book though?

1 month ago

Lisa

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Jenni NZ - Yes, I write under a pen name to maintain my privacy. I had long blonde hair for many years until I got tired of the hair dye irritating my scalp, along with the cost and constant salon visits. It was a lot of work to maintain.

My wardrobe size is larger than back in 2017. It also has more color and variety. And it has a higher turn over rate. I edit often since I enjoy less repetition at this leg of my style journey but the rules still apply. There is nothing in my wardrobe that sits unworn, I make thoughtful additions when I add something new, I rarely make returns (except to exchange a size), I can comfortably store everything I own, and I’m happy with my wardrobe. I actually restart the DH closet challenge every year to ensure my wardrobe size is always the right size for me.

1 month ago

Dee

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Great to hear Lisa, I remember you mentioning in one of my previous posts that you had a shopping addiction and that you eventually even wrote a book about it. How wonderful and congratulations on your success in working through this addiction and then going on to help others with this same problem.

I know I've struggled with shopping way too much as well. I wasn't very disciplined in the past and if I found something I really liked and it fit me well, it would usually come home with me. There was no forethought or planning. It was mostly impulse buying. I ended up with plenty of clothes that didn't really work together and actually didn't suit my real lifestyle either. I was a fantasy life shopper.

I eventually got real with myself and then I devoured everything on fashion overconsumption, unfair labour practices and its environmental impact and I suddenly didn't feel so compelled to shop as much. I now shop much more responsibly and with a proper plan for my wardrobe and I'm mostly shopping my own closet. It's amazing all the outfit combinations I can come up with using the clothes I already have.

1 month ago

Rock

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Lisa, well done! I certainly enjoy seeing your OOTD posts and appreciate the intention with which you have crafted a cohesive, casual wardrobe that conveys your personality. Your wardrobe is self expression at its finest. You deftly mix pattern and texture and embrace color. Even though my wardrobe is generally more formal, the style principles you embrace are universal and I learn from your posts. Further, I aspire to build a well-functioning casual wardrobe at some point in the future, so I thoroughly appreciate that you are the master. If appropriate, please post a link to your book. I would enjoy reading about your journey.

1 month ago

Angie

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Thanks for the gracious shout-out, Lisa! Very well deserved praise.

You put in the work, did lots of soul searching, and reaped the rewards. There are no shortcuts. You got down to business, and struggled through. YOU made it happen, and can be very proud of yourself. I am

1 month ago

Lisa

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Dee - You have an excellent memory! Indeed, I have talked about my shopping journey on YLF over the years. It's nice to have found a solution and to help others. And I agree, it is AMAZING how many outfit combinations a person can create, even with a small sized wardrobe, IF the items have been purchased with intent and the desire to remix. I have a smaller wardrobe than I used to in the very beginning years on YLF and FAR more outfit combinations today because everything I add now is the right choice for me. It's sounds like you've also achieved a happy place. *high five*

Rock - I'm delighted that the OOTD posts are helpful! It's been a lot of work to get my wardrobe to this place, but I'm delighted by the final results.

Angie - Indeed it has been a lot of work to get my wardrobe in a good place, but I'm delighted with the end results, and it shows with my daily outfits and my overall happiness with my wardrobe. Thanks for YLF and the inspiration it provides. I have lots more fun with fashion and I'm always learning because of YLF!

1 month ago

Suz

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Lisa, you have a fabulous casual wardrobe that works extremely well for you! Congrats on getting to the bottom of a shopping addiction and finding joy in outfit creation and maintenance.Your outfits are inspiraitonal and so is your approach!

1 month ago

Lisa

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Suz - I’m delighted to hear that my ootd posts are enjoyable, Thanks for the kind words!

1 month ago

Irina

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Amazing story, Lisa! What a journey!
I’m glad that you are in a good place with your wardrobe.

I also enjoy seeing your outfits. You have a well defined style and that takes some work. I’m going to see if your book available in Canada.

1 month ago

Lisa

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Irina - I'm delighted that you enjoy the OOTD posts. It has certainly taken me quite a bit of time to zero in on my wardrobe and my style. Thanks for the kind words and for looking!

1 month ago

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