Fearless Angie You've rocked your dropped crotch harem pants for quite a while too! I'm SO looking forward to your pics/post!!
I've been trying on lots of potential BFs and still not found a sweet spot. I've been mulling this over and sort of thinking that for us not too tall, thigh-heavy pears, that the very baggy BFs are just too much something, volume or bad proportions, or ??? It seems like I'd need to stay more mildly baggy to make it work (if I can make it work at all).
When you talk about jeans barely hanging onto your hips, I'm seeing the body types whos thighs are nowhere near filling out the legs.
Should not-too-tall, thigh-heavy pears possibly buy for the thighs and alter the rest?