Thanks, Angie, and thanks to everyone else for the warm welcome!
I'm here to learn, and as a writer I am used to lots of rejection, so I can take the criticism if criticism comes. After all, I'm here to learn! And I am pretty good at taking that information and sifting it through my own personal lens.
I really like what Vix said in my other thread about learning how to choose clothes both analytically and intuitively/emotionally, and going for items and outfits that satisfy both sides of oneself on some level. That's just a brilliant piece of advice and one I had never heard before. It seems to me that we can help each other on both dimensions here. Through WIW critiques we can hone our own analytical sense, but also the intuitive/emotional sense.
Example: I "know" intellectually that cropped pants are a pretty dumb look for someone with my body type (or maybe anyone). From Angie and the rest of you, I can learn why, and see examples. If emotionally, I still feel drawn to wearing them, I can ask myself why. (I know, this is still analytical, but bear with me.). So, when I ask myself why I like them, I come up with answers like this:
Comfort (right for in-between temps)
Ease (as a petite person it is very hard for me to buy pants that fit in length; with these, I don't have to be so fussy, or I imagine I don't...)
Images of Audrey Hepburn floating around my brain.
The first two are easy to deal with. I can figure out other kinds of outfits for those temps; I can accept my stature and resign myself to getting things hemmed and be done with it.
It's the last, intuitive/emotional draw to those pants that probably makes them more appealing and probably makes it harder to say no to them. So then I can get analytical again and ask myself, okay, so maybe cropped pants isn't my route to an Audrey-esque look, but what else could I try to get that look?
Thanks again, all!