Thanks, everyone! You've helped me figure out:
I'm pretty sure I "need" a pewter oxford, and I'm pretty sure it's not this one.
abc, Suz, Joy, Dashielle, kellygirl, Caro, Diane, CocoLion, Viva, Sveta, MuseumGal: thanks for pointing out the ways in which these shoes do work for me, color and style-wise. I wasn't sure, but you confirmed my inkling that I could use them. I hadn't even considered what might have been obvious to some of you (I guess I all but said it in my post, and yet I didn't quite grasp it): I could replace my black ones with pewter.
But once I actually consider replacing the Josef Seibels with these, it starts to become clear that they will not give me the same comfort, even with my heel inserts. They were very comfy at first with the heel inserts, but they do not really give as I move around in them.
unfrumped, you are so astute!. Do you read my mind, or what? I hadn't put my finger on it, but your comment made me realize I'm not in love with how these look on my feet. I like that they are tapered, but something about the shape seems to point out the high volume of my feet rather than flattering them. I actually do like the shape of the Josef Seibel on my foot--through the arch and toe. I'm just not crazy about the high vamp on it, and could certainly do without the heel.
Sterling, another mind reader! If I'm going to replace current oxfords rather than adding an occasional shoe to my already bursting wardrobe, I do want better quality and comfort, along with style. Dang it--I think that's why I end up spending a lot on shoes. Once I go for it, though, I do appreciate and wear them. Along those lines, Sveta, I think this synthetic liner might be okay; it's soft and supple. But it doesn't seem to allow the shoes to give with my foot like I'm used to. And when I tried to put them on without socks, wow! I sure felt the difference between these and all-leather shoes. I feel I'm being quite the princess about shoes!
So, the hunt is on, and I'm in no hurry. Please keep your eyes peeled for me! I'm signing on to Ascetic, Asthetic August, so I will wait till September to look in earnest. If the right shoe happens to turn up at Nordstrom, I can use some of the Nordstrom Notes I'm racking up lately toward a pair that will work better for me.
Meanwhile, Missvee, I could try some metallic shoe cream. Interesting idea!