No I have a hard time seeing past the marketing, I get suckered in by how things look on the models and the overall vibe. Even the companies that target older women (like Chico's, Talbot's etc as we discussed before) use younger models than their target audience.
As an apple, I often get tricked into thinking an item will look good on me, when it's shown on models who are usually younger and taller and skinnier and don't have food babies. And the reality on me is not so fab. So I have to really pay attention to the reviews and to the waistline and often I size up to have a looser fit that skims.
Case in point, I was in love with this AllSaints Shaela dress after seeing it in the ads, it's even an Asian model. I thought it was cool and edgy and seemed like it would work well with my Rogue Romantic "gothic romance" style. Well I tried it and it looked like I was super pregnant from the side view--I didn't realize it had so many layers of frills coming out of the front. I ended up buying the AllSaints Fleur dress, same model wearing it, but I sized up (I could have worn a smaller size with my chest measurements, but then it was too tight around the waist). The frills are flatter and go down instead of out, and the hemline and length is more flattering.
La Ligne is another brand that fools me. I love the ads but their models all seem to be skinny rectangles. Here's another La Ligne dress where I initially tried the Michaela dress but it looked maternity on me, but the Nadedge dress (same pattern) looked better because of the flowy waist. I sometimes feel like the Celeste Barber version when I wear things I bought based on the ads (she pokes fun at influencer/celebrity videos of them doing all these weird fashion poses, it's quite funny actually!)
As far as age, that doesn't bother me as much--I love cutesy kawaii stuff that kids/teens would wear like Hello Kitty and Tokidoki, it's sort of my (not so) guilty pleasure that I love to "play" with fashion, and I love "old" retro vintage looks too so I'd wear "grandma style" clothing if I liked the era--like the 40's to 60's. Of course now the age I grew up in (80's) is considered "vintage" too, sigh!
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