Plonkee, looking nice is something I aspire to as well, lol. Tunic + leggings sounds good to me, not sure why you felt unstylish (& unattractive?)
Jenn, that loungewear looks as pulled-together as I’ve come to expect from you. Not sure I’d be into changing from sleepshorts to coffee-drinking loungewear, so it makes sense to me that you don’t do that often.
Carla, you admitted it, so I will too: I don’t like sleeping in pajamas, never have (maybe it’s genetic—my dad never did either, until his bride was horrified he’d be so uncivilized, lol). I don’t drape my pajamas over the alarm clock to block the light—I got rid of the alarm clock, because I couldn’t stand the light at night.
Molly Mac & KM, as you can guess from the confession I just made, this is about the clothes I wear around the house, not your “actually sleeping” category. When I have serious writing to do, the very best time for me to work on it is immediately after waking up. After 45 min or so, I’ll go to the bathroom, brush teeth, wash my face, then work for another hour until breakfast. That’s what got me real about loungewear. I needed something to pull on easily so I didn’t freeze, but could stay in that headspace. I also wear it for the kinds of things you mention—having or being houseguests, etc. These days, being unemployed, i often put it on in the morning and wear it until I leave the house.
Cardiff girl, that’s amazing. In my experience, it can be hard to get kids to change out of school clothes into play clothes.
Binkle, ah, yes, getting dressed vs getting “dressed”. What you say about wearing a bra makes sense. Not needing one out of physical necessity myself, I’d never thought of that.
Rachylou, well dang. That puts a different light on the bubble dress sweatshirt dress I got last winter. It is very comfy, but I had never considered it as lounge clothes. More like “look at me-I get to be soooo comfy going out”. You look darn good in yours.
KM, I love that cardi! I got the color in the find, which I don’t think goes with most of my clothes. That’s good, because otherwise I’d wear it all the time. It is long and generously proportioned, but is not at all sloppy. You know it has no closure, right?
Rachylou, I discovered leggings as sleepwear a couple years ago. Dropped my kid off at school on an unusually chilly morning, decided to postpone my walk til it warmed up, slipped back under covers in my clean, fairly new workout leggings. That was amazing! The most comfortable clothes I’d worn to sleep in ever. When I got my Life is Good jammies in the find, I also got matching leggings to wear when it is so cold I actually want to sleep in pajamas, and a cardi to toss on over when I get up. My old cold-weather sleep/Lounge wear was a Lanz nightgown. I’d add socks when it was extra chilly, then long johns. If I was still cold, I’d put a sweater on over. It was the complete ragamuffin look, and the nightgown still twisted around me when I slept. Loose clothes for bed are so backwards. If I must wear anything to bed, from now on it will be leggings or long johns.
Joy, neither pjs nor loungewear? You are hard core! But I can’t argue with an EF ensemble.