Zaeobi, I love that necklace! Where did you find it? I have a set of pearls but never wear them probably because of the “proper” connotations.


Rejoice, that is my earrings — the pearl catches the light. Thank you!

Lyn, I love a column, probably the best choice for my shape.

Suz, I’m watching your outfits too! We have a lot in common color wise. There aren’t that many people I see with light silver or white hair and brown eyes, or are yours hazel? They look dark in some pics.


Cat2, thanks for the explanation, RATE sounds perfect for me.

Do you have a simple collar? You could try wearing the triple pearl bracelet as a necklace, the way Brooklyn posted about.

Hi Lana I think this is my first reply to your posts. I haven’t been posting on the forum quite as much this past year or two but posted heaps when I joined in 2017- so much to learn. I like your new moniker. I guess I can’t see much glamour in fringed raw edged jeans. It doesn’t mean I don’t like them, I bought a pair myself in November. I suppose I am just wondering if you need to have both grit and glamour in every single outfit?

Hi Jenni,
that is a really good question and one I’ve asked myself many times, I know I feel the best when I have a combination of both. Outfits that are all mostly casual and masculine make me feel uncomfortable just like an all feminine outfit does. When I have the right mix, there’s a click, a feeling of ease, and when it’s not there I cant forget about what I’m wearing in order to move on with my day. I think in some situations there’s more of one and the other.

@Lana
Here's the necklace:
https://www.etsy.com/hk-en/lis.....rope-chain

It's just costume jewellery but, if you like the idea of 'baroque' pearls (deliberately irregularly shaped, instead of perfect balls), then I'd recommend Etsy - seems that style of jewellery is popular there right now I know what you mean about pearls feeling too 'proper' - these are the only ones I wear!

Thank you I like baroque pearls best, gorgeous necklace!