Let's get revenged - Asking for fashion tips

Allyson Martinez

My boyfriend just dumped me :(( He said I wasn't feminine enough and didn't care my appearance (I thought he meant I was ugly, a***ole!!!)

Wanna transform myself to a better version - beautiful and fashionable (and girly too haha). Can you guys recommend any websites that has online styling service? I plan to learn how to mix and match clothes & accessories. You know, the virus is attacking, it's quite boring self-quarantine at home.

4 years ago

Dressing

9 replies

Latest reply was from Cee

April

Veteran

Sure, you're in the right place for guidance, Allyson.

Just be clear about what you're after (use the words "bombshell" and "hourglass" and "conventionally figure-flattering") and the YLFers will get you started. Do you have the ability to post photos yet?

4 years ago

Anonymous

Hello Allyson

Let me first say your ex was mean and you deserve much better. Any time you decide on a course of self improvement, you are the winner. I applaud your decision to make changes for your overall health and well being.

YLF is a wonderful website to begin this change. Might I also suggest you consider physical activity (working out yields endorphins that will aid you along your journey); diet (a healthy diet will make your skin glow); clothing and makeup (to accentuate feeling good about yourself and reward all your hard work).

Take time to grieve, if you need it. Most of us have been in your shoes and understand the emotions that accompany a breakup.

4 years ago

Bijou

Veteran

Onwards and upwards, you deserve better than that. Please post pictures and also the aspirational look you are going for. Angie has some great tips on how to refresh your look.

4 years ago

LeandraofBleuAvenue

(website)

Active Member

Makeover time! Yay! But, do this for you, not for him. Because you are worth it; you deserve to look and feel your best for you. And he is the one who is not good enough for you. Ok, I'm stepping off my soap box.

I love ModCloth and they have their Ask A Stylist service so you can live chat about your size, shape, and style. I've also been looking at Stitch Fix. It might be a good way to get started and then take over when you start seeing your style emerge from their picks.

4 years ago

nuancedream

Veteran

Hello Allyson! Your ex was extraordinarily thoughtless and didn't deserve to have a lovely person like you in his life. In this very trying time, you have been given the gift of transformation and that goes well beyond the realm of fashion and style. Find or reconnect with the people and activities that make you happy and fulfilled. The best is yet to come. Of course, I certainly echo what Sterling said in her second paragraph. Good luck!!

4 years ago

rachylou

Veteran

Well, thank god you got away from that loser!

I would start by looking and thinking about what appeals to you. Google ‘fashion styles’, surf IG and Pinterest...

4 years ago

Allyson Martinez

Active Member

Thank you so much. It's great to finally have someone on your side. I'm spending most of my self-quarantine time reading fashion magazine. Actually, it's quite interesting

4 years ago

abby

Active Member

Sure, stick around, you are already here. Angie and everyone here have made big improvements in me and my style. They will do the same for you.

4 years ago

Cee

Veteran

I know some guys who do a mean job mixing up quick dry cement and don't mind going on late night boat trips on short notice.

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4 years ago

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