PS - Inge's recent YLF blog post made me think of you, @Peri:
https://youlookfab.com/2022/04.....t-loafers/

Is there anything above (in Renate's version of 'Soft Edge') that inspires you? Or is her juxtaposition of satin/ soft colours/ rounded shapes VS leather/ oversized sunglasses/ chunky lug soles/ patent gloss/ tartan plaid all off the mark for you?

Peri I am so sorry to hear the news about your husband's health. Janet, Suz and Lana are brilliant inspiration and have provided some great ideas on how to add edge to your style. For me, an easy starting point is to play with shoes, accessories (including glasses) and make-up. I have added a bit more hard edge into my style recently to try to casualise my dressy wardrobe, these recent additions are in Finds. I hope you enjoy this change in your style and it continues to be easy!