Thank you all for your help! I got back from the trip yesterday and took a bit of time to sleep off two marathon days of shopping. I had a short meeting in ABQ I had to be there for, but we shopped like crazy. In addition to clothing, I was also looking at digital cameras and I desperately needed to decided on a new laptop so I could get off my ancient loaner after my laptop had a meltdown a while back. I'll give you all a quick rundown-- but I just wanted to let you all know that all the suggestions made for an easier shopping trip than it would have been otherwise.
First, we went to 3 major camera shops, only to find that they don't carry the models I wanted to look at--- but apparently Best Buy does! I was irritated.
I got a computer! Woohoo!!
Now on to the stuff that you are actually interested in. I saved some money on my returns by returning in person at a couple stores.
Unfortunately, Macy's was a bust. I had forgotten how horrible the Macy's in ABQ are compared to Phoenix, Denver, ect. They don't even sell jeans other than their house brands and Levis. Few business clothes, a lot of cheap polyester.
There is a "new" shopping center which has the AT, Loft, ect. The shopping center itself was very nice.
I learned that I was "Kate" fit in pants my loft (maybe with a little nip in the waist) and a signature fit at Ann Taylor. Of course, I am going to have to order online because they don't sell talls in the stores. Not a single jacket fit. I need a 14 in the shoulders both places and maybe an 8 everywhere else. I am not sure what I am going to do there, because that is a 75-100 alteration, if it can be done (which makes a 75 dollar polyester blazer 200 dollars, and a nicer blazer into a 300 dollar piece).
Also, I had a slight issue with fabrics. The rayon poly blends that are washable are idea for my lifestyle--- but they tend to be a little silky/drapey/thin and read dressy for the new workplace. I fell in love with a pair of nubby wool trousers, but they were unlined and there is the dry cleaning issue when you never know when you will be kneeling in dirt.
BR was a bust--- all three fits are just a little two slim in the behind and thighs. Sizing up would work, but there are a lot of alterations to do. I tried on several of the layering tops from Angie's list but had issues. It could be that I really need a tall. However, they just weren't flattering on me.
Gap was interesting. They had the long and leans. They fit alright, but weren't very flattering. There were no always skinny or any of the other popular styles in either of the two stores. I tried a pair of high rise skinnies and loved the fabric, but once again had an issue with too much behind and thighs. Sizing up is tricky, because I don't actually have really full hips and can end up with way two much "front fabric".
I also shopped at Eddie Bauer, WHBM, and NY and CO.
I bought a pair of tone-on-tone black striped rayon/poly slacks that will need a nip in the waist. These would work for interviewing or gallery openings/funerals, ect. I think they read too dressy for work and would show everything. Great price compared to LOFT though for what is essentially the same product. I liked the cut.
Thank you all for your help!