Thank you all SO much for your responses! Sorry I didn't answer right away- we had guests for dinner, so I was occupied.
I can't tell you how much I appreciate your input! I'm pretty sure I'll be cutting the tags, but I just want to be sure.
My daughter who didn't like it is 34 years old, so not just some whippersnapper! But she and I don't really share the same style esthetic, so I do take her opinion with a grain of salt.
Karen, I liked the way the next size down looked over just a lightweight layer, and if that was all I would be wearing I'd have bought the smaller size. But I need a coat for our cold winters, when I'll be wearing bulky sweaters or jackets underneath, and this size is better for that. I definitely didn't want it to look tight or fitted. I'm looking for a fluid fit.
Deborah, you have a good point. It's hard to say whether this style will become dated quickly. I guess I'm willing to risk it. This is a nice enough coat that I'd be willing to have it tailored to be more fitted later, if need be.
Yay, Angie! I hoped you'd weigh in! I'm thrilled that you approve! I would never willingly make you cry!