delurked, Laura G, Jenni NZ, Mainelady, Windchime, fashiontern - thanks for the helpful feedback. I thought I would love it, based on experience with my first peplum purchase a few weeks ago which seemed similar (just posted a WIW shot from tonight https://youlookfab.com/welookf.....-me-trends ). But taking pictures and your comments have focused me on why I am not loving this, and it is:1)stiffer fabric, 2)higher round neckline (I can't the neckline to stay open because of the band collar and the crispness), and 2) where the waist hits.
Jenni NZ - my Alaska and Hawaii wedding were wonderful - YFL made sure I was so perfectly attired, I felt great.
Joyce B - it is worth a try at the sale price, nicely made, no button gap, and true to size. I will try it with a straighter bottom to see if it moves me to love.
rachylou, Joyce, JAileen, Barbara Dianne - thanks for pointing out the positives. I think the pictures are making me lean toward burgundy if I keep it. Not sure why - I thought the navy would be my favorite, but pictures really help.
Firecracker - really thoughtful helpful analysis! That dress was a stretch for me, bought it as a placeholder until I found something better, but upon styling, fell in love with it and felt so "appropriate" for my two weddings. I think I am trying to prettify my look, with baby steps. I guess I was drawn to these NAS tops because they have that feminine touch balanced with the more menswear fabrics. The waist on the dress you mentioned and the first peplum I bought is also pretty high, even on short-waisted me, but the stiffness in the Caslon tops is throwing me. And I have been lightening my my palette a bit since I bought that dress. BTW - you made me buy the Born burgundy boots - they should arrive Monday. Fingers crossed.
Thanks to all for the help! I'll try this with some other bottoms to see. And with Born burgundy boots!