Thank you so much for the feedback. I'll return it. I'm wearing my assymetrical Joie sweater today, and I feel so much better in it. It's great having those nagging questions confirmed or answered by fresh eyes! I appreciate the honesty from all of you.
For those wondering, the Joie Armelio is about 2" longer at the short side, and 3-4" longer at the points (which aren't in the same place). And my Joie is a medium, which fits very slightly looser than this CM large.
Una, I'm 5'6". It'll be interesting to see what you think of yours - I think you're quite a bit smaller than I am, so who knows how they adjust the shape as they size down.
Suz you're absoutely right about the neckline. I generally stay away from crew necks, but this one is a titch lower than "normal" so I thought I'd give it a try. But I have enough clothes, I don't need to compromise. Remember that, Elizabeth
The skirt idea is a good one, I may try that. I'm just not sure I want to have a sweater with this price tag that I'm unable to wear with jeans. kwim?
And thanks for the hair compliment Catnip! Much appreciated. It was such a hard decision to make, so encouragement on the journey is very motivating.