Hello there, Ariadne! LOVE your username by the way
Your husband is crazy!! That dress is totally a keeper. The pattern is great and the colours are very very flattering on you. They really complement your warm (I think it is warm) skin tone. The only objection I think he could have is that the shoulder straps maybe aren't ideal, though I think the neckline is also very nice. Unless, of course, he is the type of husband who prefers everything to be form fitting and body conscious... I know mine certainly is!
I think I am in the minority here, but I like the tribal sweater on you more than the pointelle cardi. The tribal one is very on trend right now, and I like the colours there, too. The way the pattern falls (those two green stripes) gives you a strong shoulder line which I think looks really cool given the long kind of flow-y nature of the piece. Shiny is right, though, it totally looks like the Big Lebowski. Then again, Jeff Bridges is way cool in that movie. I mean, they don't call him "The Dude" for nothing!
On the other hand, while I think the cream cardigan is very pretty, as my grandmother would say, "it doesn't do anything for you." Don't get me wrong, please! It certainly isn't unflattering in any way, shape or form. You must have an eye for colour, because this one too looks great on you. But, I don't know, despite its loveliness, it isn't moving me the way the other two are.
What do you think?