Hi! All this talk about brands being associated with certain demographics and being conventionally or unconventionally flattering got me thinking. In my mind Eileen Fisher was too loose/baggy, plain solid colors, too boring for me. But in the spirit of leave no retail stone unturned and rescuing closet orphans, what do you think of this EF sweater on me? I liked it because it had an asymmetrical hem and it was grey and black, not just plain solid. I'm a sucker for diagonal lines and it reminded me of Helmut Lang/AllSaints back in the day. It's super old and I've worn it a lot, so much so that it has at least one hole right in the front, maybe more. I used to wear it with black skinny leggings with faux leather diagonal striping but everything that I had from those days with faux leather has been peeling/disintegrating (like I have a cardigan with faux leather on the elbows but it's disintegrating, only the real leather pieces have stayed intact). I'm going to be more careful about trying to buy real leather instead of faux leather since I keep my pieces forever. 

One of my last posts before I took a break was to complain that people thought I looked pregnant in this sweater: http://goldenpig.lookfab.com/p.....-baby-woes

So, since I STILL have pretty much everything I bought back then, what do you think of this on me now (I've gained more weight since then)? Keep or purge? Cause I'd have to fix that hole somehow (or leave it as RATE moth holes)? And which bottom looks best (or recommend something else)? I tried doing volume on volume with a leather flare midi skirt but I'm not sure, it looks pretty darn huge (1-3). Then with Levi skinny jeans (4-7), R&B pajama joggers (8-9) and R&B track pants (10-11). I don't know if I feel super fab in any of these, don't know if it's because of being sensitive about the prior comments about my belly (I know I need to let these comments go, but it's my sore spot) or my style has evolved. Also, what about pendant necklace or no necklace? I was all set to post this as a WIW and be like, see I can wear any brand! But when I put things on, I wasn't so sure if it works with my apple shape and I don't know what the "in" top and bottom silhouette combos are nowadays. Does this read "hip" or "maternity" on me? I need help updating this look, or maybe let it go...

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