Hi Faith,
Welcome to the forum. I love my Jesse Kamm pants and found they did ease up with wear. I am not sure I know what you mean exactly, but for me, I found the pants almost formed to me, and they become more comfortable the more I wore them.
I went back and forth on the size and eventually bought the smaller size. I am glad I did because the pants do give with time. Not a lot but enough that they fit perfectly after a few wears.
I know some bloggers never find them comfortable. Andrea of Seasons and Salt sold hers because she found them the wrong style for her.
I hope that helps. Let me know if you have any more questions.