I've been lurking for a while, and thought I'd chime in with my 2 cents. My measurements are 36-30-43 (and 24 inch thighs…sigh), which make it next to impossible to find anything that fits will in pant form. Not really close to your measurements, but for the sake of anyone similar, I've had luck with some brands that aren't mentioned much around here.
Gap used to be my go-to for jeans, but their fits have been so weird these past few years, that I finally caved and looked into premium. I've had luck with:
James Jeans Heather: http://www.shoppetal.com/james.....ajean.aspx (great work jean)
Fidelity Honeysuckle: http://stores.luxandmie.com/Fi.....-p251.html
IT Diva: http://www.jordynscloset.com/c.....ey=ST-3515 (not really premium, but I love the fit and price)
Paige Hidden Hills also fit well, but I can't bear the price tag. I also remember trying on a pair of David Kahns that worked (sorry, I don't remember what style), but I wasn't crazy for the cut in the lower leg. I keep re-reading the comments that attest to the fact that pears can wear skinny jeans, but I'm really not sold that these can work with hips like mine. I look like I'm going to fall over in anything more tapered than a bootcut…even with boots. But, maybe I'm being stubborn with how I see it.
As for trousers, Banana Republic Jackson are the best I've found, and sometimes the Martin fit. I can also confidently walk into Mexx on any day of the week and find trousers that fit perfectly. Mexx has been my saving grace for work wear for years.
Anyway, hope the info helps, and good luck finding something that works!