Oh no.This is unfortunately a problem fashiongal. I have had exactly the same situation with my cream leather boots. I get most of it off with acetone, but you can’t use this on suede. Suede is just about the hardest fabric to clean in a light colour. Also, dye usually comes off inferior quality jeans. I have a pair of dark blue gap jeans and the dye keeps on coming off a year later. I have pair of dark blue Diesel jeans and the dye has never rubbed off onto anything.
Your best bet is to take your boots to the shoe cleaners to see if they can help you out. Try Nordstrom’s too. And then don’t wear those boots with those jeans again.