Thank you all so much for the feedback - I suspected the cardi was a little big, and I tried it with a belt, but it seemed to gather quite a bit. Maybe next time I'll try what Kyle suggested - the belt under the cardi.....
And Rosie,like Bella said, the Inspiration Calendar is found on Kimberly's Fab Finds Under $50, and it's an awesome go-by when you can't decide what (or how) to wear.
http://www.fabfindsunder50.com.....endar.html
Bella - yes, I didn't realize it until just this week that she had skipped the first week to do some challenge. So this last week I'm just piecing stuff together.
thanks again for all the feedback!!