Thanks so much for the comments/compliments!! Joy - as a small-breasted woman, drawing attention there is not always a bad thing(ha ha kidding!!).
As for the pants length - maybe I could go shorter on the heel, but I'm real sensitive to Proper Pants Length, and I really feel that these are as close as I'm going to get. They come pretty close to skimming the ground...
And I'm pretty sure that's the style of the pants - they fit perfectly in the rear end - probably better than any other pants I own.
I will have to try the Angie knot with that scarf. I am thrilled that I tried wearing it - my sister gave it to me, and I've just never thought I could pull it off.
But with all of your suggestions, I feel more confident, so thanks everyone!