Beth Ann don't you know that it's one of the laws of the universe that men think their wives are incompetent? Even if their wives have clear skills/knowledge? Maybe not all husbands...but a lot of them. You . You are clearly a competent and skilled musician, but to him......not so much.
Years ago when discussing what type of filler to use in an old antique counter top. I suggested colored grout. Nope, not a good idea says DH. Our builder/contractor was visiting shortly after that and I asked him. He said "colored grout". DH said ok good. I called him out on it right then and there and he just mumbled. It's a genetic flaw, I swear
I knew all those songs really well except the Hamilton ones...gotta get a recording of that. I could listen to Les Mis all day long...I guess I'm with you these are the songs of my people too!