Ahh, I would love some help finding the right jeans. Also, a closet purge and some shop my closet time would be invaluable.

I was driving home yesterday thinking about something I read here, and Angie's advice, and my thought immediately went to how wonderful it is that Angie actually takes the time to give her professional advice and opinions to all of us. I have learned so much from this forum in just the few months I've been a member, and feel very lucky to have access to such, especially at a time when I could scarcely afford to hire a stylist.

Ohh, So sorry today is a stressful and emotional day for you...know how much you are loved, valued and adored here.

If I had a day with Angie it would def. be tea/coffee/lunch and treats first, then we would hit the mall like old friends ,and Angie would randomly pull items off the racks as we walk by...try this...try that (items I am sure I would pass right by).

We would try on sunnies* together*,clothes, handbags , and scarfs . We would giggle and laugh all along the way:) Shopping is always fun for me, never stressful!!!
I would undoubtedly come home with some fabulous new pearls:)

Angie, I'm so sorry to hear about your family's loss. You are in my thoughts.

Oh Angie, some great big hugs coming across the ocean to you...

Oh Angie... I hope tomorrow is a better day.

I'm sorry for your loss and your hard day Angie! It seems like when one thing goes wrong, it all piles on. I hope things look better soon.

Oh Angie! I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

It sounds like a hard day, Angie -- I'm so sorry. Actually losing someone is terrible, and worrying about the things that might happen to our beloved pets is nearly as bad.

(It seems a little callous to jump immediately to "And here's how you could help me with my problems if I hired you..." but maybe feeling needed is a cheering experience?)

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If I were working with Angie, I would want input on all of the following:

1. The best colors for me

2. Specs! Confession: I really dislike wearing glasses. I much prefer contacts, but I have developed some eye issues so I save my contacts for occasional use only. Maybe Angie could find a pair that I would love to put on on the morning.

3. How to recombine things I already own.

4. Finally -- shopping! I would let Angie plan where we would go, and I'm sure she'd suggest places I would never have thought of.

P.S. I would also love to hear your advice on how to hire a stylist, Angie, since I don't hear you making any plans to move to the East coast...

Let's just say if I could hire Angie I would need to fly her to Chicago to inspect my closet, which means she would stay with us, and I would run out in the morning to buy her a fabulous almond pastry for breakfast. Then she could meet our boys ... they would adore her. Then we would head downtown to meet some of my friends and together we would all stroll Michigan Avenue, maybe take an architectural boat tour too. And if we ran into some fabulous retail finds along the way, so be it.

Oh the fun we would have - makes me grin just imagining it. Great thread!!

Angie, I hope that you can feel all our good wishes for you as you are facing lots of sad things in your life right now.

As a treat to myself for a mid-decade birthday and a splurge on self-care after a fairly tough year, I have scheduled a consultation with Angie in early June. I have to say I am really looking forward to finally meeting you in person!

I hope to focus on a summer wardrobe that keeps me warm in Seattle's cool summers but still looks summery; figuring out accessories -- especially handbags and shoes; and toss or keep closet orphans. But as someone else said, I'll listen to anything Angie has to say!

Angie: I'm sorry to hear about everything going on. I'm thinking of you and wishing all of you the best during this hard time.

Now to more cheerful things, I would have loved to have you take a pass over my closet and weed out the unnecessary. I also would have loved you define and critique my style. Most importantly, I would have loved the chit chat, tea and desert. Who knows, maybe one or more of them could happen one day.

Oh, Angie - So sorry to hear of your uncle's passing. And maybe more difficult when you are so far from them.

(pause)

But in cheerier times, I would definitely go for the closet purge and assessment of what I own and have Angie help me fill in the gaps.

This makes me realize that my dreams of gathering the funds to go to Seattle for a day of hiring Angie wouldn't accomplish what I probably need to have done first. . .hmmm. . . rethinking. . . no doubt Angie would have some sage advice that would get me back on track with my dreams of gathering funds for heading to Seattle

I scarcely know what to say. Thank you so, so much for your love, hugs and kind words. It has really helped. I felt much better by this afternoon and our girls are therapy to say the least. If you can bear with me, I feel a need to reply back to each of you – just because.

Julie, I see vintage blouses and accessories with slacks for work days without hose to compliment your romantic personality and pretty features.

Rute, I’d love to take you 50’s dress shopping.

Theresa, I want to pop you into arty voluminous styled shift dresses.

Mac, I’m sure we’d have a ball shopping together in Toronto. You’d feel fab in no time and I’d have fun dressing statuesque you.

Stringy, I like you in the funky casual stuff. Keep thinking along those lines and you’ll nail it.

Dusty, I think you’ll love mock wraps. Have you tried them?

Maya, I count it as a great achievement in my career to have you come around to belts. I van be just as stubborn as you! Onto sorting out your skirt tops. I see more tucking-in in your future.

Anne, I can see you in great casual jewelry with just the right amount of spunk to match your cute personality.

Michelle, I would LOVE to take you shopping. It’s got to happen one day. We need to get you into more mock wraps and 50’s styles dresses for those weddings – and grow that pearl collection.

Marianna, you do a killer job wearing skirts – you have my pardon to skip frocks. But If I could get you into sheaths, that is where I’d start.

Louise, we need a session together at Topshop. Hopefully, we’d run into Kate Moss.

Joy, we need to find you grey jeans to match your beautiful grey hair. And I say sheath all the way for Mum of the groom.

Alecia, I vote more dresses and skirts for your biz wardrobe. You rock them like nobody’s business.

Marlene, I’d love to help you purge your closet and come up with outfits that make you feel like you’re expressing your personality.

Christine, you look fabulous in clams and walk shorts on days that you don’t wear dresses. Stick to that formula with sweet little tops and a cross-body bag.

Malcontent, I’d love to help you find jeans and see your style. Perhaps you’d like to start that thread on the forum?

Debora, you dress beautifully and are an example to most. I wouldn’t let you change a thing. But I’d enjoy helping you find the perfect leather jacket.

Khris, how endearing. You pick the tea and lunch venue and I’m there.

Rae, it would give me great pleasure to help you purge your closet. Edit is my middle name.

Kim, I’d love to get you into harem pants! But also just seeing you smile in real life would be enough.

Cathy, I’m guessing that your belt sweet spot in a little higher than you’d expect. Pencils are the way to go. Try tucking your tops in more! You are nailing your style.

Pregnantmom, I’m excited to hear about your style journey back to your pre pregnant body. I’m sure you can’t wait for that either.

Tanya, we can edit to your heart’s content, but we’ll have to fit in fun shopping time too. We have so much fun when we shop together.

Debbie, I can’t wait to shop with you again. You are a joy.

Jenny, sounds like we need tea so that I can answer all your questions. I’d thoroughly enjoy thrashing out just about any topic with you fellow ENFJ :0)

LE, you’d be so fun to dress. Did you ever move to Portland?

Rosie, your name alone is close to my heart. As a fellow bag lady yourself, we could probably talk about bags all day. And shop for them.

Lori, I hope we get to see some of your style. It's great to have you on board.

Taylor, you and I would head straight for Burberry and L.A.M.B. Then we’d go to shoes and bags. I’d try on all the flats and leave the heels to your well seasoned feet.

Lena, I’d love to fit hats on you for hours.

Kristine, I want to fit you into many, many high necked sheath dresses. Pretty please.

April, your eyes are magically magnetic – no wonder you prefer wearing contacts. But let the specs shopping begin!

Laura, when are we meeting in Chicago? You paint a perfect picture and I'm sure I'd overstay my welcome just because I was having so much fun. You'd have to kick me out.

aj, I can’t wait to meet you and work with you. I think we’ll have lots of fun together fellow ENFJ.

LOP, another ENFJ! I’m critiquing your style right now - don’t you change a thing. You are a gloriously funky dresser who throws in a naturally effortless ladylike edge. It's enviable and you are fab.

Sara, I hope that I can help you in one way or another. Although you do really well on your own - we want to see more of your style!

And now I feel the need to collapse in a heap.

Oh Angie! You are SO generous and sweet! YLF is the best website in the whole wide world!

Oh Angie, what a monumental effort! VERY impressive. As if I weren't already feeling warm and fuzzy tonight.

It IS a great achievement, and I so, so appreciate your achievement. I hope you have it on your resume! I wore my ruffle belt today with the Ali Ro tunic from Beacon's Closet and it was just splendid. I love it loose and voluminous, but I love it belted and shaped too. I feel empowered now that I get to choose how I wear things

If I could have Angie for a day we would have a shopping marathon from the time the stores open until they close, shop till you drop kind of day! LOL
I could be visiting Vancouver this summer and Seattle is not that far from there, so maybe this is not only a DREAM?

Wow. I'm speechless. Angie, you're truly a gem.

I think I'll give sheaths a try, just for you.

What a gift you are. Even on a rather sad day for you like today. What a heart you have to respond to us so thoughtfully...thank you

Angie- just for you I'll go try on some harem pants and post a pic--- then you'll have an apoplexy and hope to never have to see that again you are such a treasure! I would love nothing more than to have tea with you and share some laughs!

Oh, I just read about your uncle. I'm so sorry Angie. It sounds like this is a rough time for you. *hugs*

I hope the big birthday bash cheered you up though. Nothing raises one's spirits like spoiling their pets silly.

Angie -- you are such a sweetheart. Big hugs to you, and I'll be tucking, belting, and pencil-skirting as you suggest I look forward the next time we can meet, and we should go out for tea and pastries (which we totally didn't last time).

Renata -- go for it! Totally worth it.

Angie you are a gem. I would shop with you again in a New York minute!

Angie: You're the best. You made us all feel special in the best possible way. Personally, I'm blushing with your kind words. Big virtual bear hug!

Dear Dear Angie, I can't believe you wrote individual responses to all of us ! You darling, and on such a hard day for you too. I really feel for you with the loss of your Uncle, and I imagine your Papa is taking it hard too, not to mention your pet worries and a hard anniversary coming up!

lots of love Anne

(wish I could transport myself across the ocean and give you a hug too).

PS if I even manage the great hurdle of getting to the US I reckon I have to fit in a visit to you too

Angie, that was epic. And so characteristic of your gracious and generous nature. Here's to much tea and cake, take it easy and you'll find your centre to deal with the difficult things going on right now.

Angie, I just wanted to say that I'm very sorry to learn that you have had a tough and very emotional day. I'm sending you lots of golden, healing energy to you and your family from across the ocean *~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~*~ x

Angie, I'm late to this discussion, but I just wanted to offer up my condolences. There is a Bible verse I like to reflect on when I think about my loved ones who have passed: "I thank my God upon every remembrance of you." (Philippians 1:3) It's simple but for me it sums up my goal of making memories with the ones I love.
I remember there was that Mother's Day post last year where you spoke so sweetly of your mother. I hope that I can have a close of a bond with my kids as you did with your mum.

I have to add that your mum raised a fine, generous, kind lady in you. I knew from my lurking days a year ago that YLF was a special site. I was pleasantly surprised as to the supportive and respectful comments among all the members even though there were varying opinions and styles. Usually style sites have the expert trying to sell a book or style tip newsletters for an additional fee. I was blown away by your daily posts and how frequently you addressed questions on the forum...all for free! It just goes to show that if you give genuinely, you receive generously.

Even though I've never met you, I consider you a friend. Although I will admit that if we should ever bump into each other, I would probably be speechless and giddy and may likely scream like a lunatic celebrity fan. No need to wear ear plugs...it would be a silent scream...I would just be opening and closing my mouth and clutching the nearest person walking by.

After I calmed down, I would ask if you were available the next day. Yes? Oh good and this is how it would go:

We would start off with breakfast at my favorite bakery and eat in their outdoor patio. While you weren't looking I'd gingerly touch the ruffled flower of your Valentino bag and bask in the joy that I touched purse perfection...aaahhhh.

Then I would take you to our downtown street of independent designer boutiques which I haven't the nerve to go into on my own. You would teach me all the details and fabrications that make an item go from blah to KILLER.

During lunch I would sit transfixed while listening to your experiences in the fashion business. Then we would head over to a downtown tea shop that has tea classes where you get to sample different teas of a single variety side-by-side.

After I got you full of caffeine, we would head to our huge outdoor outlet mall where I would get a proper body shape assessment, know which stores I should focus on and get a summer wardrobe that has me keeping cool, modest and stylish. Whew! Of course I would take lots of photos and then go home and start a YLF forum thread to gloat about my day! : )

Lastly, I just wanted to say that I'm thinking of you and your family and sending hugs your way. Thank you for checking in on us even though you could have easily and understandably taken some time off. You're amazing!!

I enjoyed writing the epic and thanks for chiming in again to read it.

Marianna, I look forward to the sheath dress experiment.

Renata, it's a three hour drive. Easy!

AJ, you've planned the most delightful day that I'm the one who is giddy thinking about it! Thank you for your thoughtful warm words and compassion. Today is a great day.

Katie and Anne, it was your Auzzie energy that came across the ocean this morning. I felt it :0)

I'm super late to the party. Angie, I'm glad that today is going better than yesterday and hope that you're able to take good care of yourself and your family during these rough times.

If I had a day with Angie (which I'm hoping can happen someday since my family is in Seattle) it would be all about frocks! And whatever else Angie thought was needed! And it would be amazing!

Angie, your kindness and devotion to your YLF'ers style has left me flabbergasted. You are brilliant, if we could all award you points I'm sure you would have gained 56 solution points from the same thread : ))

On another note I'm happy you are having an easier day today.