So the similarity is that both SD and SN represent a yang (as it’s termed) base or structure, with a strong yin (sigh-these terms!!) overlay.
So we are all ‘seeing’ the same thing. Yang bone structure- but in your case, it’s more long and fine eg height, long lines in your limbs, high forehead, long neck, very defined cheekbones, crisply moulded eye sockets, feline eye tilt at some angles. These are all sharp Yang traits. Also extreme hair texture is a Yang trait if I recall (either v thick, curly or straight and fine), as is high contrast colouring (fair skin, dark hair).
Yin aspects - curves and roundness in your face that’s going to fight anything too linear (and would clash w straight D IMO). So mouth, eye shape, cheek all have a lot of rounding.
I don’t see much blunt Yang- often when we self assess we think we are wider than we are!
I also reckon your vibe is more Jacqueline de Ribes and Rachael Weisz than you realise.
It’s not uncommon to look at dramatic styles and think ‘Too hard, and I will spend the rest of my life overdressed, and wearing uncomfortable shoes!’ I found the biggest benefit it gave me (I’m a D) was a start place for experimenting. Then I adjusted so it felt like me, and I could walk.
