Theres a large gap between my angle and the opening on the back and front and it makes my ankles, which are normal sized, look like twigs. Also the shape up close is kind of ... Clunky on me? Am I crazy? I know a lot of people here have these and love them. Am I imagining things or is it possible the voodoo of different people being different means a wonderful, versatile piece for most people looks wrong on me?