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I don't look fab

mamacandoit

Hi everyone, I'm new here and feel like I won't fit in bc well, I don't look fab at all and I don't know what looks good - if anything - on me.
I'm guessing most of you are fair bit slimmer than me.
I'm a size UK16/18, used to be a size 22 and I'm losing weight (thank you Slimming World!) so I'm getting to a healthier weight.

I used to be a size 10/12 but had 4 difficult postnatal experiences after having my babies and that's when the weight piled on.

In addition to weight, my body shape also changed. I lost all shape in my butt and gained a permanent pregnant-looking tummy as well as D cup breasts.

So I'm asking for help...which is hard.

I'll try and post a photo.

thanks

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Latest reply was from celia

April

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MCD, you've come to the right place. Not the place that's going to tell you everything you're doing wrong, but the place that will help you figure out what's already good and how to make the rest better.

Fear not -- this is an extremely supportive community with lots of people whose story sounds very much like yours.

mamacandoit

Just realised i can't post photos yet as I'm a newbie!
I will when I can though

Anonymous

Welcome!!! I am so glad you have decided to join the Forum.

You might be surprised to know that many of us came to this website with the goal of trying to improve our style quotient. We learn from Angie and we learn from one another. It is a journey and you have made your first step.

Hope you enjoy the journey.

Mochi

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You may have a body similar to mine. It's not easy but you will be supported here and if you give it a chance, you can really come to find flattering looks for yourself. Welcome and I hope you stick around!

Eliza

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Welcome. And please know that while all of us share an interest in style and many who post are well along the road of wardrobe satisfaction, a lot of us (raises hand) are learning as we go, accommodating size changes or health issues, and having periodic crises of confidence.

Angie

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Fashion Stylist

Welcome from me too. You have found a very supportive community, and I'm excited to help you with your style journey.

goldenpig

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Hi mamacandoit, I love your username!
I came here five years ago after my second baby, and I felt just like you about my style. I gained a lot of confidence and developed my own sense of style with a lot of help from Angie and the fabulous YLF community. I learned a lot about dressing the body you have and having fun with fashion. I too am struggling with a mummy tummy and weight gain post #3 and wanted to let you know that you are not alone and that you ARE fab already. YLF can help you feel as fab on the outside as you are on the inside! Hope you enjoy participating in YLF and post pics when you can!

Here's one example of me struggling with my permanent mummy tummy aka food baby. I've gotten pretty good at hiding it but it is sometimes demoralizing when people keep asking if you're pregnant! But that hasn't stopped me from having fun with fashion. And I have to keep reminding myself that my belly is amazing for having created three wonderful kids. It's worth it! I've also been exercising more and eating healthier and have lost about 5-7 lb (wish it was more, but still working on it). Onward and upward!

http://goldenpig.lookfab.com/p.....-food-baby

Lyn D.

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Hi and Welcome!
You have taken a brave first step on a wonderful style journey.

Louise

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Welcome aboard. Congratulations on your weight loss, there's a whole range of sizes here and most of us started off exactly where you are feeling decidedly unfab. It's a wonderfully supportive community here and you'll soon be looking fab x

mamacandoit

thank you everyone. i was really worried about posting but thank you for your encouragement

Peri

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Welcome! We all have things we struggle with, so no feeling bad about it! The forum has helped me change what I wanted to and adapt to what I couldn't change. This is a very wonderful group!

Chris987

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I just joined a couple of months ago, and too felt a little nervous about posting things, but I am completely comfortable now. This is a wonderful, supportive, helpful community with a common love of fashion and figuring out what makes each of us look good. Lots of different styles which is really great, gives you lots to think about. It's very clear that everyone makes an effort to be pleasant, supportive, and honest in their postings. It has completely changed my view of social media. So welcome, and dive in when you are ready.

K. Period.

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Hi and welcome! I know you will enjoy the forum. I get the best ideas and most helpful suggestions here. And we're all real people, with real people bodies.

Anonymous

Welcome. There are plenty of people here to help you. We hope you'll feel at home here.

Anonymous

Watch out, YLF is extremely habit-forming! But I mean that in a good way. Welcome, and make yourself at home.

kkards

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Mamacandoit, one of the most important lesson from YLF, we all come in different shapes, and sizes but we are all fab...or just a tweak or two away from fab! Welcome!

catgirl

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You have come to the right place for a soft, warm, and extremely helpful landing. Welcome!

Glory

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Welcome! It is a wonderful community, kind and supportive. We are happy to have you join!

Anonymous

What a sweet and graceful letter of introduction! You'll find there's good advice, creative ideas and useful feedback from all perspectives here. I'm looking forward to more of your posts.

Joy

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Welcome. We all try to bring out the best in each other no matter what age, shape or size.

Maneera

(website)

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Welcome. You've come to the best place in the world to find positive, encouraging and informative advice on your style. YLF is a warm community where nobody ever judges shape or size....every single Fabber loves fashion and helps to bring out the best in each other. You'll get a variety of view points and loads of great advice and genuine feedback, all of which will help you hone your personal style.

Looking forward to getting to know you better!

rachylou

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Welcome! YLF is the best place on the web, I swear. Zero heartburn I think you will have lots of fun!

Beth Ann

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YouLookFab isn't about being a celebrity blogger or having the proportions of a Victoria Secret model. We're all here to have fun with fashion, and you know what --- we look great at any size or age.

I'm a US size 14 --- and I'm not alone on the Forum. Jump on in!

BrieN

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Hi and Welcome! YLF is a great community and Angie is incredibly knowledgeable. Folks here are generous in spirit and really good at helping you figure out things like body shape (and there are great resources by Angie on how to dress the ... body shape), what colors look good on you, and how to approach any vexing trouble you are having with your wardrobe or style so that dressing can be fun.

chirico (Chiara)

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Welcome! You have found the right place. This is a very supportive community, and there is so much diversity: size-wise, style-wise, weather-wise...

Aziraphale

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You are very welcome here! I think we all have times when we feel less than fab. But your username shows that you have the right idea. You have come to the right place.

harmonica

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Welcome! YLF is the best community, not only for fashion and style, but for support whenever you need it. When I joined I was totally clueless, but have learned along the way and is still on the journey. We all have our issues, and this community is very supportive in a kind, knowledgeable and empathic way. And fashion it fun! Love your username.

I'm looking forward to follow your style journey!

Anonymous

Welcome! Just jump right in and get started on your fashion journey. Everyone is so helpful and thoughtful on here and they come in all shapes and sizes. Don't be afraid to just keep asking questions and posting photos (once you can).

Summer

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Welcome! We are all different shapes, sizes and style preferences here. We'll soon have you feeling great about yourself and your wardrobe.

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