That is devastating--at any age but especially when he is so young. I'm so sorry. ((Hugs))

So incredibly frightening and unfair. A horrible diagnosis to receive, especially in the prime of life. Sending so much love. Take such good care of yourself; it's at least as awful and exhausting for you as for him. Huge hugs. x

Wow, how awful. I’m sure I’m not the only one here who has seen how difficult dementia is in all its forms. Wishing you all the best and many hugs in navigating this.

Oh no! So sorry that this trial has been put in your path.

Staysfit, this must be absolutely surreal for you. I’m so sorry. Sending thoughts your way.

Oh no! I’m so sorry Staysfit. I hope you are able to get the support you both need to deal with this. Sending you good thoughts.

I’m sorry you and DH have had this news. It must be very stressful, especially during these crazy times. I hope you’ll get some positive news with regard to a more detailed prognosis.

You are very strong and you are very sensible, that is so evident. Take care of yourself. We can never imagine how we could get through this sort of utterly devastating time - because it's so very unthinkable- until we are in it. And then we find the resources deep inside. Add me to the big group hug, and the support and care of this group. I'm so sorry.

I’m so sorry. This is really unfair and awful. Wishing you lots of love and support.

Dear Staysfit, really feeling for you. What a blow to be dealt out by life, at only 55.
We all want to support you virtually as much as we can. So sorry, sending virtual hugs.

Oh no! Staysfit, I can't imagine how thunderstruck you and DH must have been when you heard this diagnosis. Such a cruel blow to be dealt at only 55. Sending you much love and support along with many virtual hugs.

Sending a hug to you I'm so sorry.

Hi Staysfit - I read this a few days ago but honestly was so shocked that I had to sit with it before responding. I am so, so sorry that you, your husband and your family have to confront such devastating news so young - and when our worlds have already been turned upside down. I met my husband at 19 and we have been together for 20 years, so I can’t imagine what a blow it is to get this news when you imagined Growing old and healthy together. I am thinking of you and praying for you all and sending you every good thought I can. You are strong and level headed and I’m sure these qualities will help you on the road ahead.

I am so sorry! You are in my thoughts and prayers.

I am so very, very sorry. <3

This is a difficult hurdle in difficult times. Please let us know how things go, and if you need emotional support. We are here for you.

Such sad news. I hope newer therapies will help and that you both have much time together before more difficult changes, if they happen at all. Know that so many people here are thinking of you.

Thinking of you and your husband.

Oh my, I have been out of town and just saw this. I am so sorry, this is just devastating news for you and your family! I'll be thinking of you all.

Dear YLF friends, thank you for your kind words. I truly appreciate them! I am doing my best to stay calm and present in the moment. It’s difficult, but so far I have been very fortunate. When I spoke with my employers and the team I work with, they were remarkably supportive and have promised to allow flexibility as I navigate this new chapter of my life. Having that reassurance eases my stress and allows me to feel less divided between my obligations as a physician vs. those as a spouse and parent. My constant mantra remains, “make each minute, my best minute, one minute at a time”.......

There are no words to express how I feel. I'm so sorry you are going through this and hoping and praying for the best. We will be here for you. XXXOOO!!!

That’s super nice of your colleagues, Staysfit. You are in my thoughts.

Glad you have that reassurance from work as you navigate this new circumstance. You are wearing many hats; wishing you helpful support and the chance to tend yourself along the way.

I’m so sorry to read this heartbreaking news. Please remember to take care of yourself as you help DH. Sending you both thoughts of strength, courage and hope.

Even though I haven't met you in person, we in this community feel we get to know each other. Thus I am very, very sad to hear of your situation but truly admire your attitude of one minute/day at a time. I am happy that your employer is supportive, and wish all the best for you. You are so emotionally evolved, self-aware and intelligent, maybe you can take notes on your journey -- I'm sure others would benefit from your thoughts and actions.

I am so sorry to hear this! He is Blessed to have you at his side thru these terrible life changes. Glad you can seek out treatment plans. That and medication adjustments can make a real difference in quality of life. My 64 yr old sister was recently diagnosed with Parkinson's on top of the Dementia diagnosis. Best of luck to you both and I'm glad he has such a loving caregiver.....