I've been trying out handbags lately as I move away from carrying a diaper bag. So far, I've had pretty inexpensive ones (under $40). I don't "love" any of them. Usually they are too floppy or the shoulder strap doesn't stay on well, or it's too difficult to get things out of them with one hand. I know a lot of you on YLF love bags and shop for a really nice one that you adore. How do you do that? Is it possible to pick one online that is amazing? I know my usual style is casual, needs to be durable, easy to keep clean, medium/large size, easy access and stays open, doesn't flop all over itself when I put it down to find something in it. What bag would you pick for me? I'm seriously lost.