Aw, nice!
Some years I am very minimal with decorating, especially if we will be away for the holidays. Not much point in doing a lot of decorating if we won’t be home to see it! And in all honesty, some years I’m just feeling it less or more. Some years I swear I’m not doing all of that work, and before you know it, I’ve got all the decorations out and I go big, LOL.
It’s a very mixed emotion time of year for me — my dad died the week before Christmas, and even 28 years later, it’s hard, and my mom passed in November, not long before Thanksgiving. And last year we said goodbye to our little pug Sophie the day after Christmas. So I can be a little melancholy this time of year. Sometimes decorating helps; sometimes not.
Our house is not visible from the road, so we don’t typically do much outside decorating. It’s a lot of work, and with my husband’s schedule and unpredictable weather, some years it’s just not in the cards to do outdoor lights.
I do all the indoor stuff. When we do decorate, we get a real cut tree about 7-8 ft tall and I do the trimming. The tree goes in the atrium of our dining area — the living room and dining room are one big open space so it is visible to the whole first floor, and you can see it through the front windows as you come down our driveway.
I grew up with multicolor lights so I defaulted to that for years, but in the last few years I’ve done white lights along with the eclectic assortment of ornaments and decorations I’ve accumulated and inherited.
After mom passed, I kept the smaller artificial pre-lit tree (maybe 3 ft tall) that she and I bought together for her when the old artificial tree became a bit too much for her to handle. I put that one on a console down in our den and decorate it with a bunch of mom’s ornaments. It’s nice to have the glow of that when we sit down there with a fire in the fireplace and watch movies (we have a tradition of watching the Lord of the Rings movies every year at the holidays!). On the years when I’m going minimal because we are traveling, I forgo the big real tree in the atrium and just use “mom’s tree.” Last year for the first time, the lights stopped working, so I’d like to remove the old lights and keep using it, just putting on our other lights instead.
I also have half of my family’s vintage Christmas garden supplies (my sister has the other half), so for years when I’m super motivated, I build the little village/garden, complete with little houses, a pond, bridge, etc. I have the old train and tracks too, but that’s a bit more of a production — maybe someday when we have grandchildren! LOL