Very kind of you all to reply while I was sleeping
BethAnn, I would love to find a brand that "gets me". I can see a lot more try- ons in my future.
Xtabay, Bad Pants made me laugh : )
Ginger, thank you for your detailed review of the issues. If I sized up, I think the waist would be way too big, and the legs much looser than I want in this pair.
Diana, I can see now to avoid this style of pockets. If I'm shopping online then I'll look for good photos or product descriptions to help. I don't really like a high rise, either. Like LisaP, I generally prefer the fit to be lower on my tummy (that's what I've always called it!) as it's more comfortable than my 'waist' which is above the curviest bit.
AG, Dee, bettycrocker, unfrumped and Tafffy I used to keep lots of things in my pockets, in my previous jobs. I do have a couple of pairs of pants without pockets, (they fit well, surprise!) and can cope with those, so might have to live without pockets more often.
Ms Maven, I had thought about a belt, too, though it didn't help with this pair.
Banoffi and kkards, with these ones, I think the alterations would cost more than the pants! But it's good to be reminded that most of us don't have a perfect fit off the rack (thanks, Firecracker) and that some simple alterations like sewing pockets shut, can help a great deal.
Luckily I ordered more than just those pants, and I had success with some other items, which I'll put in another post.