Well, we're several weeks in, and after a few patch jobs on the gray, I am going to have to take a chance on a box of hair colour. I'm fine doing this because I don't stray too far from my natural colour, and I don't have highlights or anything complicated (even from the stylist).
However, I am questioning what sort of shades I should be going with. I've always gone with ash shades to counter my hair's tendency to pull towards red. But the last few times I've coloured, I've found it rather harsh, and I'm reading that this could be the ash tone causing that effect.
My skin leans cool but my hair tends towards warmth naturally and my eyes have both. Advice varies on whether to go cool toned to match, warm toned to balance or neutral ... what do you guys think? I know I need to go around a level 6 or so, even though my pre-gray natural colour is at least a 4, because I can't handle that level of depth and saturation anymore. So it's really just the tone that I'm confused about.
Thanks for any advice you can share!